Friday, September 6, 2013

Accept The Changes

My words for today are a reminder to me that Cancer Changes Everything.  It changes how the person with cancer thinks, feels, acts, and reacts.  I know in Larry's case it has sure changed his attitude about living. It was a brutal wake up call that made him realize there are still a lot of things to enjoy in this life.  And now he is fighting hard to buy time to enjoy those those things. 

It also changes everything for the loved ones helping the cancer patient win that brutal battle.  I know it has changed how I perceive a lot of things.  It has swept all bullshit and games aside in one fell swoop  Made me stronger and more independent, while at the same time reminding me to accept help from the real friends I have who offer their help. 

I just spoke to him on the phone a few minutes ago.  He sounds cheerful despite telling me as we talked he woke to find hair all over his pillow this morning.  I told him not to worry it was only hair, and will grow back.

He said is waiting to see which show up first to take him to the Gym for his work out. He does PT and OT.  PT they work on strengthening legs and lower body, OT is for arms and upper body, especially exercises that help strengthen his lungs and diaphragm.

I have been having a lazy morning in bed.  Doing some of the Me Time I make for myself whenever I can.  But now it's time to get my lazy butt up and shower, dress, and face the day.  

3:45 pm

Back from visiting Larry. He is looking very good today. Dr. Sorrel came in while I was there, and was obviously very pleased with how much better Larry is looking and doing. 

He's still holding his own at 5 liters  And oxygen saturation levels are staying up pretty good as well. Had already had PT before I came, and was about to go for his OT when I left. 

The nurse also informed me today they are going to call his cancer doctor Monday and get the ball rolling for some more chemo treatments. 

And I am doing excellent on my driving! Took the interstate into town today. My nightmare about all of those 3 parking spaces I once used came true today. But, I just whipped my little SweetPea into another spot like a pro  Have I mentioned what a dream she is to park? LOL Yes, I LOVE my Subaru!